One Day One Life - The Art Of Transformation Stacking

Episode 38 - “No Matter How Much I Do For Her It’s Never Enough” - Truth Or Victim Mindset - Part I of Victim Agent Mindset

August 02, 2024 Glenn Lovelace

Episode 38 - “No Matter How Much I Do For Her It’s Never Enough” - Truth Or Victim Mindset - Part I of Victim Agent Mindset


In this episode Glenn dives into his past “Victim Mindset” thoughts that were not serving him.


Check out this list and get to work. Glenn actually shares this list on the episode in reverse order if you’re trying to follow along and it doesn’t make sense that’s why:

  1. "I do everything for everyone, and no one cares about me."
  2. "What's the point in trying if nothing ever changes?" 
  3. "I can never catch a break."
  4. "I'm tired of being blamed for everything."
  5. "Why do I always have to be the one to compromise?" 
  6. "No matter what I do, I always mess things up."
  7. "Why can't things just go my way for once?"
  8. "I'm just not good enough."
  9. "It's never going to be enough for her no matter how much I do."
  10. "When is life going to give a little?"

Alright, you have the list what’s next?

Like Glenn said in the episode go back through and FINISH each one of these statements to empower yourself.

Glenn will work from this in the next episode so be watching and waiting.

If you're marriage is in a productive season then share this list with your wife. Ask her how you are showing up in these types of thoughts and what your unique variation and flavor is so you can have additional insight and eyes on you.

Perhaps she will reciprocate and let you point out a few of hers and together you can make some progress. Make this fun if you dare and dare to laugh a little…this doesn’t have to be as painful as you think.

If your marriage isn’t quite there yet, ask your wife if you can share this episode with her then ask her if you’re brave enough to share where you are showing up as a victim in your life and in your marriage.

This won’t be easy but doing lots of squats isn’t easy either BUT that’s the price of growth.

Share if you Care

Leave a review

Message Glenn

Get involved

Let’s make some progress!

See you on the next one where Glenn will dive in a little further into this VICTIM mindset problem.

And like always, if you think you’re ready to take it to the next level set up your call at Glenn Lovelace Dot Com - www.glennlovelace.com